Lodi, California

January 19th through 22nd, 2018

It is hard to leave this little guy, he is so much fun.

We are off to Lodi. My memory is Maureen was wonderful when I lost my first wife to cancer. She lived pretty far away but came over and cooked a few meals and nursed Renee as much as she could on her visits. After Renee died Maureen came over and helped me prepare the house for sale. Maureen was in the Peace Corp with Renee, both nurses, in Honduras. Life long friendship ensued which I inherited. Don was our family physician when we lived in Galt. He was an excellent doctor. I think he knew everyone in town. Whenever we went anywhere someone wanted to say “hi” to him.

Depression is a first cousin to Parkinson’s disease, for everyone involved. There are bright moments, laughter, love, but an ever-present depression because everyone knows how the story will go and how it will end. Parkinson’s doesn’t kill you, you die with it, not from it. But it takes your muscles and speech, your thoughts and feelings. It is a rough disease, brutal in it’s impact on patient and family.

Coping with a Parkinson’s Disease Diagnosis

  • Getting a diagnosis of Parkinson’s disease (PD) can bring up a lot of emotionsfor both the person with PD and their caregiver. PD greatly impacts your life, particularly as the disease progresses. Although you cannot control the diagnosis, you can make choices about your treatment and your lifestyle that can give you purpose and a sense of control.

If you are newly diagnosed with PD, learn all you can about the disease, the potential symptoms, and the treatment options available to you. Look for credible sources by medical professionals or using referenced medical sources. Having this knowledge will help you make informed decisions and advocate for your care. However, learn at your own pace. Some people find that reading too much at once is overwhelming or can cause added anxiety about the future.1

Reach out for support

Get help and support from friends and family. Talk to them about what is happening to you and ask for what you need. You may also gather strength and support by talking to others who have PD, such as those in a support group. Many people with PD also find that talking to a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or counselor, can help. Social workers trained in working with people with chronic conditions are another resource for people with PD.1,2

Lifestyle approaches

There are several lifestyle approaches that not only provide you with a sense of control over your disease, they can help make your condition more manageable. Lifestyle approaches for people with PD include:

  • Nutrition – Good nutrition is essential and may help with the management of symptoms. Diet and the timing of meals can also impact medication schedules, as well as the effectiveness of medications for PD.3
  • Exercise – Regular exercise is essential for people with PD to maintain balance and mobility. Research has shown that exercise may have protective effects for neurons (nerve cells), possibly slowing the progression of Parkinson’s, and has also been shown to relieve some of the motor symptoms of PD.4,5
  • Stress management – Stress can affect your health and how you feel. Stress management techniques, including meditation and breathing techniques, can help reduce your stress and improve your mood and your ability to perform daily activities.1

Major Parkinson’s disease organizations

There are a number of national and regional non-profit organizations that provide information and support for people with PD and their caregivers. Several also help funnel funds to research for PD.

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